This afternoon, I had the great privilege of singing art songs with a prospective collaborative pianist. He and I met for a brief rehearsal prior to performing for a handful of professors. He was a lovely young man, and it was a joy to collaborate on two pieces, a Debussy and a Brahms. The Brahms had especial depth and emotion...despite my few unanticipated breaths I ended up taking! How fascinating! ;) What struck me closest to the heart, though, was what he said at the end of our rehearsal. He said, "You have a very nice voice...and a great personality, especially for a singer! Not at all like the singers I normally have to work with."
I was flattered by his compliment, but even more so, I was startled by the reminder of how so many singers come across to others. How so many musicians or people, in general, come across to others! It's a rather upsetting reality. Why can't we all just be nice to each other and work together to bring the life and spirit of this beautiful repertoire of music off the page into the world around us?
There isn't a place in the music for big egos. Nor in life, really. That's never what it's been about. We, musicians, are here to share, not to show. It is our job to give, not take. Compliments are a lovely bonus, but that isn't our purpose for creating music. If you are in it for the "Fame" and "Glory," then it will always be superficial (and it's probably time to rethink your career choices...). We are indebted to the music, not the other way around. Granted, it is a difficult balance when you need to "sell yourself" or impress during an audition or competition. Yet, I feel that you impress more upon their thoughts when you offer a true and sincere performance.
Okay, I will step off my soap box for now. But I can't promise this soprano will turn right-side up, again, just yet... ;)
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